Just a Vent about an incensitive Person

I just really need to Vent about someone at work.

We have this girl who is a hostess and she's been at our restaurant for several months. Everyone knows about the infertlity treatments, adoption plans etc (our manager is going through this too). So it's no big secret...sometimes I feel I'm educating some women about their cycles.

Anyway this girl L at Christmas went to visit her BF in Va came back and said they got married. Okay great Congrats. Two weeks later she tells me that she's pregnant and scared yada yada...So a couple days later she tells me she went to the doctor and I ask so when are you due. She said I don't know they didn't tell me. That was my first indicator it was a lie. That's one of the first things they tell you.

Well a couple weeks later she transfers to Va to be with her "husband" who got deployed a week later. While she was gone she kept in touch with one of our other managers and he would tell me things like she called and said she was "huge" and that she was having a boy.

Miraculously (my spelling isn't that great) when she is coming for a visit and to transfer back down here she has a "miscarriage".

I am totally annoyed that this girl had to Lie about something so important. I'm happy for anyone who gets PG. But don't lie to me about it, especially when I have such a hard time getting Pregnant. Some people are so incensitive and just need to GROW UP! The other crappy part is now I have to work with her again because they let her transfer back, when she wasn't a good hostess to begin with.

Okay I'm done. :)

What a week

I spent most of my week on our couch. Good thing it was raining or I would have been even more miserable because I couldn't go outside. It all started Wednesday night with a severe headache and then I woke up Thursday morning with a sore throat and draining sinuses. Good thing I was off work already. Sunday came around and I was much worse so to the urgent care clinic we went. Got some meds and I was able to work last night. Today I once again felt bad so back to the couch I went. As usual Cart was super sweet, but he seems that when I'm sick or down to offer me sweets. Hmmm gotta work on that one. :)

I'm hoping to be back to normal by the end of the week so I can enjoy my days off this weekend.

I do have an appointment with the doctor to discuss these recurring sinus infections within weeks of each other. I just don't like that they put me out of comission for so long.

Hope everyone is having a super week!

Thanksgiving Thursday

It's time again for Thanksgiving Thursday!
Today is short and sweet.

I am thankful that we are at a place finacially that I really only "have" to work about 25 hrs a week at work. That if I am feeling bad and need a day off I can take it. Or in this case 4 days in one week.

I am also thankful for my friend Jessie to be able to spend hours talking to her about nothing or something. She's always there, Thanks Jessie!

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Good Day Today

Today was a rather good day. I realized it and my mood as I was standing at work washing dishes.

Cart got up early to go to the gym for some triathalon training. As he got home I woke up and realized that today was the day for a meeting I signed up for at work. So I changed real quick, brushed the hair and teeth and off I went.

When I got home Cart and I went to what used to be Flemin.gs and So.ns. It's a tile store that obviously got sold. We were there getting quotes for tiling our master bath and kitchen. All I can say is Wowzer. Let's just say the master bath will come way before the kitchen.

Afterwards Cart and I went to Pan.era Bre.ad for lunch. I got lucky and got baked potato soup...my fav. Then we came home and decided to spend 45 minutes picking up the living/dining room. I only had about 45min to sit and relax before heading to work.

Usually a Saturday night bar shift I'd be there until 9 or so but I was "cut" at 7. Yippy. So Cart and I went to Tar.get where we got this

A game for the Wi.i
3 tubes of toothpaste
Cart's V8 juice
12 big rolls of Bou.nty
12 big rolls of Char.min
All for a grand total of $29 and change. Yippy!

Then we watch some wierd movie that I can't even remember the name. So it was a very productive day.

Tomorrow I hope to get some cards made and scrapbooking done. We'll finishing cleaning, maybe layout by the pool (if it doesn't rain) and of course grocery shopping. So maybe another really good day!

I love Great Weekends!

Busy Summer Ahead

This is the time of year that we get really busy. The end of May starts the Summer of Birthdays. First my Best-Friend S, her son turns 1 at the end of May. Then mine and Dads birthday on the 4th of June. Then friends of our family have birthdays and anniversaries. The weekend after my 28th birthday is my 10 yr High School Reunion. That will be a whole other post. At the end of June Cart has training in Tampa which I will join him for about the middle of the week. We plan to go to Busch Gardens for some fun but also meet with friends that I have living down there.

In July is Cart's birthday and his first triathalon. Yes I said Triathalon. I keep wondering if he is going through some mid-life crisis with all these marathons, triathalons etc. But he's always been into working out and being in shape. But yet it hasn't rubbed off on me. :) We also have more friends birthdays and my moms birthday.

With all the birthday's coming up I'll be busy making cards and working. I'm back to part time hours and it's nice to have a little break. Our summers usually fly by and before we know it Bike MS is here and then the cold.

It's funny as I type this I feel that we are about to pass all these events at warp speed. I am definitely looking foward to summer and all the warm weather. It's already really hot here so July will be brutal for us. But we stay because we love our summers.

We have several house projects for this summer. First we are getting our deck complete. I will post pictures of that once it's complete. After that we will work on finishing the landscaping in the back. I'm looking forward to summer BBQs and Superbowl parties and just parties in general on our new deck!

A summer of Fun is ahead so be sure to check back!

Thanksgiving Thursday

Another blog I follow has Thanksgiving Thursday and I thought I needed to participate to remind myself of all the good things in my life.

I am thankful:
1. That I have a wonderful, caring husband
2. That we have such a supportive family
3. That we both have jobs that we enjoy
4. That we have a home
5. That I have friends I can lean on whenever I need

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Philippines Moratorium

I was just catching up on reading the blogs I follow and in reading Rachel's blog she made mention of a moratorium for infant adoptions from the Philippines. Maybe this is why our agency turned us down...Not necessarily for this particular reason. But the saying goes "everything happens for a reason". You may not ever know the reason at the time but later on you find out that reason.

I've been through this many times before where I'm just not sure. When our agency turned us down for the Philippines due to my medical issues we thought it was just a sign and but the more I thought I thought what if we just switched agencies. But now I know it was a definite sign. I think God just knew I wouldn't be able to handle the waiting...let alone the "extra" waiting of a moratorium.

If you recall our agency told us that with my depression and anxiety diagnosis about 9 yrs ago that even if we were approved we'd sit on the list forever being passed over because they don't look at this issues the same as the US does. Well with the moratorium Wow we'd be waiting a long time.